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TOPIC: Stop child circumcission stop child abuse.

Stop child circumcission stop child abuse. 7 years 1 month ago #67

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Young boys are being circumcised without proper consent and the police are covering up evidence, CPS, Health Visitor and social service services are all failing us. Currently this practise is not a criminal offense the only protection a helpless baby boy has is the hope that one of his parents will have the sense to object such abuse and protect him. But when it is done without appropriate consent it should be treated as child abuse and assault. Why should it be done with both parents consent if it had to be done at all? The answer to this is because we have a legal system ready to take a draconian approach to protecting women. This system as necessary as it maybe, fails especially when women lie to get the men out of the way so they can circumcise their children without consent. So why do we consider this barbaric practise ok and allow it to go on? Is it because we are afraid of being called racist or have we been bribed to look the other way? Whatever the reason they have let children down badly.


Who is responsible for protecting the human right of children if they are at risk from their parent? What happen when this is failed? Is social services supposed to encourage this barbaric practice because of either one of the parent religious orientation? Someone in social services did, and made comparisons with his own children who were also circumcised. Who have we got running our offices? Is it the child abusers themselves? Who is responsible to protect the children and stop them from becoming victims of this abusive culture? There is evidence of lack of awareness about the true damage both psychologically and physically done to these unfortunate and helpless babies. Then we wonder why some men have a propensity for violent and sexual abuse.

Women are at a lost as well when it comes to male circumcision because they can never be fully satisfied sexually. Women who had the opportunity to have experienced both will attest to this fact. Unknowingly to some women, this caused them to become gay, as they would most definitely have more fun with a strap on than with a circumcised male. This sadly leaves the circumcised male to wonder the street seeking younger children for sexual gratification which their innate awareness tells them it exist.


There is a link between circumcised men and grooming of young British girls for sex. Circumcision of helpless male babies should be criminalised. The result of circumcision namely lack of sexual gratification through deprived sensual pleasure are forcing abusers to seek younger girls. Sadly they were robbed of this pleasure from a young age themselves. The problem can only be solved if the cause is addressed otherwise we will always be at the effects of these heinous crimes.

It is the responsibility of all of us including the Religious establishment Government and or the community to change the mindset and take action to bring this barbaric act to an end. The doctor who carries out circumcision need to learn and accepts that they don’t have to deprive the younger generation of their birthright just because they were abused themselves. This sadly is a real turn on for some of them and the reason they do it. In some cases doctors might need counselling to help them stop this abuse and come to terms with the consequences of such act. Failing to be gratified by abusing children through circumcision, they might seek their pleasure in other ways. Therefore counselling should help these doctors not to wonder the street looking for you girls as well. I once met a Muslim surgeon whilst doing my nursing placement in the theatre, he was a very nice man and we talked about many things one of which was circumcision. He said if he had a choice he would never had had it done and it was not a religious requirement. So why are we taking this choice away from helpless male babies?

The prepuce (foreskin) is not just a piece of skin, and it is not a separate part of the penis. The prepuce is an integral part of the normal, natural skin system of the penis. It is an extremely complex structure, and an organ of highly specialized functionality. When the foreskin is amputated, nerves, gland, and other tissue structures that comprise the prepuce, are amputated along with the 'foreskin'.

The amputation of the prepuce has a radical, highly destructive, long-term physical effect on the penis, and a severe psychological impact on the child - and ultimately the adult male.

Circumcision radically alters the penis, disrupts the normal, natural physiology of sexual intercourse, ingrains lifelong psychological patterns upon the newborn, and has produced very disturbing sociological effects upon men and our society.

Amputation of the prepuce deprives a man of upwards of 90 percent of the erogenous sensitivity his penis was designed to feel.

In addition, amputation of the prepuce externalizes the gland. The gland is an internal organ. It was meant to be protected by the prepuce. The glands contained within the preputial tissue secrete natural emollients which moisturize and maintain the sensitivity of the glands. Once the prepuce is amputated, the glands is exposed to the elements, and it quickly develops a thick layer of keratinized (dead) skin cells to protect it from abrasion. This 'callusing' deadens the sensitivity of the glands to external stimulation, further reducing the erogenous pleasure a normal penis was meant to provide a man.

It is sad in this day and age that we stand back and allow helpless babies to be abused, robbed of their god given right and wonder why they turn into monsters. The grooming and abused of young girls is done in the hope that circumcised men will gain the pleasure that they were denied, when they were circumcised. Not every Muslim circumcised their children those who do also condone forced marriage. There is an embedded sadistic element that needs to be addressed as well. Of course there is nothing that can be done for the gangs now and they should know better. But it is worth emphasising that they were victim too.

The question therefore we should be asking ourselves is how have we contributed to this situation of gang grooming, what did we do to protect them from being mutilated? What did we do stop them from being robbed of the birthright to enjoy sensual pleasure? This is by no mean trying to justify the gang’s actions, but when we sit back and did nothing to avert this situation then we bloody well deserve what we get. It does not have to continue this way, we can make changes either by consent or by law, it is our choice as a nation and humanity to do so.

Circumcision =mutilation =Sexual abuse. This is no different to Gangs grooming except one is widely ignored. Like sexual mutilation Rape is also encouraged in some culture in the case of forced marriage. These cultures which condone to these practises should be educated.
Webster's Dictionary defines circumcise as follows ...

cir•cum•cise:
to cut off the prepuce of (a male) or the clitoris of (a female)

"It is strange that doctors in Western countries will not permit female circumcision, which involves removal of some or all of the erogenous tissue from the vulva ... but will permit, and in some cases encourage, the removal of the male prepuce, which is identical to the female prepuce in its embryological development, cell structure, and nerve and blood supply."
- E. Wallerstein, Circumcision: an American Health Fallacy

"The forced amputation of a healthy part of an infant's or child's genitals without his consent, whether in the name of medicine, religion or social custom, is a violation of his human rights."
- Paul M. Fleiss. MD, MPH

"Those who would circumcise, implicitly suggest that they know better than nature, God, or whatever power created us and our world."
- Ronald Goldman, Ph.D, Circumcision: The Hidden Trauma

Webster's New Dictionary of Synonyms ...

Mutilate:
implies the cutting off or removal of a part essential to completeness,
not only of a person but also of a thing, and to his or its perfection,
beauty, entirety, or fulfilment of function.


“God created perfection those who distorts the creation of God is doing the work of the devil”. Quotation from the Quran, this implies those doctors who mutilate children are doing the work of the devil. Why does it still go on then?

Campaigning to stop child mutilation irrespective of religion custom or culture until the child reaches the age of consent.


End child abuse together we can change for the better.

Sign the petition here www.change.org/en-GB/petitions/british-g...l-the-age-of-consent to criminalise male circumcission.
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Re: Stop forced marriage & child mutilation. 7 years 4 weeks ago #70

I fully support the criminalisation of forced marriage for the under age children. Often this is done to bring other family members into the country which is a loophole in the immigration that need to be plugged.

Criminalisation of such barbaric practise must be upheld. This inhumane practise will not be driven underground if social services are doing their jobs properly. There has to be a genuine will on the part of all responsible authorities for the betterment of our society.

People in position of authority must stop taking bribe and offer preferential favours, they ought to seriously consider the impact their action has on the wider community. Bribery is a technique used as a mean of control by the anti-social personality, once you have compromised your integrity you are trapped and you are no longer fit for purpose. You will be acting in fear of being blackmail and you will become a potential trouble source (see PTS on the anti-social personality forum). You become destructive because you are not able to act freely.

Now child circumcision should be criminalised as well until the children reach the age of consent. Child abuse must stop. I wonder if the head of victim support would support this.
Child circumcision facilitate the raping of young girls in cases of forced marriage because of the lack of feeling or penal pain during dry penetration resulting from sexual mutilation which in itself an act of child abuse.

It would not be easy for an uncircumcised young man to force himself on the girl as it is encouraged in forced marriage. “This act of rape is encouraged by the girl’s father” a victim told me. “Get her under your knees” the girl’s father reportedly said to the then husband. After she became pregnant she came back to England. Where the hell are the authorities in these situations? Where they bribe to look the other way? I would say more than likely.

I wonder what would be the opinion of the head of victim support on the subject and whether he condones these practises or not? Have we got a wolf among the sheep?
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Psychological Effects of Circumcision Studied 6 years 11 months ago #96

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Psychological Effects of Circumcision Studied

An article titled "The Psychological Impact of Circumcision" reports that circumcision results in behavioral changes in infants and long-term unrecognized psychological effects on men. The piece reviews the medical literature on infants� responses to circumcision and concludes, "there is strong evidence that circumcision is overwhelmingly painful and traumatic." The article notes that infants exhibit behavioral changes after circumcision, and some men have strong feelings of anger, shame, distrust, and grief about having been circumcised. In addition, circumcision has been shown to disrupt the mother-infant bond, and some mothers report significant distress after allowing their son to be circumcised. Psychological factors perpetuate circumcision. According to the author, "defending circumcision requires minimizing or dismissing the harm and producing overstated medical claims about protection from future harm. The ongoing denial requires the acceptance of false beliefs and misunderstanding of facts. These psychological factors affect professionals, members of religious groups, and parents involved in the practice."

Expressions from circumcised men are generally lacking because most circumcised men do not understand what circumcision is, emotional repression keeps feelings from awareness, or men may be aware of these feelings but afraid of disclosure.

Goldman, R., "The Psychological Impact of Circumcision," BJU 83 (1999): suppl. 1: 93�102

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Serious Consequences of Circumcision Trauma in Adu 6 years 11 months ago #97

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Serious Consequences of Circumcision Trauma in Adult Men Clinically Observed

Using four case examples that are typical among his clients, a practicing psychiatrist presents clinical findings regarding the serious and sometimes disabling long-term somatic, emotional, and psychological consequences of infant circumcision in adult men. These consequences resemble complex post-traumatic stress disorder and emerge during psychotherapy focused on the resolution of perinatal and developmental trauma. Adult symptoms associated with circumcision trauma include shyness, anger, fear, powerlessness, distrust, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, and sexual shame. Long-term psychotherapy dealing with early trauma resolution appears to be effective in healing these consequences.

Rhinehart, J., "Neonatal Circumcision Revistited," Transactional Analysis Journal 29 (1999): 215-221



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Male Circumcision Affects Female Sexual Enjoyment 6 years 11 months ago #98

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Male Circumcision Affects Female Sexual Enjoyment

A survey of women who have had sexual experience with circumcised and anatomically complete partners showed that the anatomically complete penis was preferred over the circumcised penis. Without the foreskin to provide a movable sleeve of skin, intercourse with a circumcised penis resulted in female discomfort from increased friction, abrasion, and loss of natural secretions. Respondents overwhelmingly concurred that the mechanics of coitus were different for the two groups of men. Unaltered men tended to thrust more gently with shorter strokes.

O�Hara, K. and O�Hara, J., "The Effect of Male Circumcision on the Sexual Enjoyment of the Female Partner," BJU 83 (1999): suppl. 1: 79�84

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Early Adverse Experiences May Lead to Abnormal Bra 6 years 11 months ago #99

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Early Adverse Experiences May Lead to Abnormal Brain Development and Behavior

Self-destructive behavior in current society promotes a search for psychobiological factors underlying this epidemic. The brain of the newborn infant is particularly vulnerability to early adverse experiences, leading to abnormal development and behavior. Although several investigations have correlated newborn complications with abnormal adult behavior, our understanding of the underlying mechanisms remains rudimentary. Models of early experience, such as repetitive pain, sepsis, or maternal separation in rodents and other species have noted multiple alterations in the adult brain, correlated with specific behavioral types depending on the timing and nature of the adverse experience. The mechanisms mediating such changes in the newborn brain have remained largely unexplored. Maternal separation, sensory isolation (understimulation), and exposure to extreme or repetitive pain (overstimulation) may cause altered brain development. (Circumcision is described as an intervention with long-term neurobehavioral effects.) These changes promote two distinct behavioral types characterized by increased anxiety, altered pain sensitivity, stress disorders, hyperactivity/attention deficit disorder, leading to impaired social skills and patterns of self-destructive behavior. The clinical importance of these mechanisms lies in the prevention of early adverse experiences and effective treatment of newborn pain and stress.

Anand, K. and Scalzo, F., "Can Adverse Neonatal Experiences Alter Brain Development and Subsequent Behavior? Biol Neonate 77 (2000): 69-82

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